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Our payment security system encrypts your information during transmission. We don’t share your credit card details with third-party sellers, and we don’t sell your information to others. Please try again.Please try again.Please try again. Please try your request again later. Then you can start reading Kindle books on your smartphone, tablet, or computer - no Kindle device required. Page 1 of 1 Start over Page 1 of 1 Previous page Next page Register a free business account Jennifer has a special gift in communicating through stories that all of us (both on and off the spectrum) can easily relate to and take something away from. (And I love the illustrations.):) -Brian Bojanowski Our kids are amazing -- and they deserve to know the rules everyone else plays by. So -- here they are. Every single 'hidden' or 'secret' rule I wish someone had told me when I was younger -- something I teach my own Asperkids and which I'm proud to pass along -- even if it means sharing my most less-than-fabulous moments with the whole world.Jennifer O'Toole knows; she was one. This book is a top secret guide to all of the hidden social rules in life that often seem strange and confusing to young people with Asperger syndrome. The Asperkid's (Secret) Book of Social Rules offers witty and wise insights into baffling social codes such as making and keeping friends, blending in versus standing out from the crowd, and common conversation pitfalls. Chock full of illustrations, logical explanations, and comic strip practice sessions, this is the handbook that every adult Aspie wishes they'd had growing up. Ideal for all 10-17 year olds with Asperger syndrome, this book provides inside information on over thirty social rules in bite-sized chunks that older children will enjoy, understand, and most importantly use daily to navigate the mysterious world around them.Jennifer keynotes around the globe, is the mom of three (awesome) Asperkids, and proudly, is an Aspie, herself.
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Full content visible, double tap to read brief content. Videos Help others learn more about this product by uploading a video. Upload video To calculate the overall star rating and percentage breakdown by star, we don’t use a simple average. Instead, our system considers things like how recent a review is and if the reviewer bought the item on Amazon. It also analyzes reviews to verify trustworthiness. Please try again later. BabyCat24 5.0 out of 5 stars Out of all the books I could find, this one had the most practical information written in an age-appropriate way for a kid in the middle school to high school range. It is written to explain basic rules for kids who really struggle understanding social conventions. All of the topics are explained in a way that I, as an autistic adult with relatively good social skills, find accurate. The author also did a good job of selecting which topics kids are likely to struggle with. My cousin apparently found it fascinating, and was running back and forth all day checking with her mom as she read about a new social convention that she had never realized was important. This book is probably best for kids in at least middle school, with solid reading skills. I am happy with my purchase, and out of many books I have read, this is definitely one of the better ones intended FOR autistic children and teens. It definitely helps that the author has Aspergers herself!I wish I had found the book. I wish I had found the book sooner. No, my 10 year old ASD child does not want to read the book, in fact he hates reading. I can see how this is true. And we won't always agree, but we must find common ground somehow through compromise or altering bahvaiors and if not there is consequences, not necessarily punishments, but conseequences.I think I would have benefited most from this book if I had actually read it as a pre-teen or teen. Since I am now in my late 30's, I have figured many of these things out the hard way, just as the author did.
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It was still very soothing to hear someone else explain some of my hunches and and observations. I felt validated and reinforced. Something that bothered me about this book was the heavy references to How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. I recently read this book as well and found it deplorable. There is good general advice in the book for being friendly, but the overall scope is morally questionable. I found it strange that this author chose to quote Carnegie's work so often and so enthusiastically. I could perhaps stomach one or two references, but more than that seemed suspicious. Some of the advice was just out of touch, for example, suggesting that Aspie teens just have their hands and nails professionally groomed at a salon, so they wouldn't have to worry about it. As a pre-teen and teen, I was lucky to have tattered hand-me-down underwear with holes in it. I'm now a college professor, and I've still never visited a salon. I could probably afford it now, but it would mean cutting into some other area of my budget. This author clearly comes from another world. Ditto clothing advice. Reading her suggestions for teens was a bit surreal. I loved how she repeatedly affirmed the value of quirkiness and that people, including romantic partners, would love you for your unusual characteristics. Bottom line: I would recommend this to pre-teens and very young adults with ASD or some other social impairment. If you are further along in your life, you may find it too predictable and benefit from other books, such as Asperger's on the Job by Rudy Simone (it has a lot of advice for other areas of life besides a career, and a good overview of what it means to have ASD).It is packed full of information that I wish I had known as a teenager, but the info can definitely be applied to my adult life. I highly recommend this book!I am currently reading this with my son and it is deeply resonating with him.
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The language is not clinical or condescending, it is relatable and written from the viewpoint of someone who 'gets it' as she has dealt with similar issues all of her life. Thank you for this guide and helping my son to see that he simply processess differently than Neurotypical people. It is very validating for him.I stumbled across a description and it sounded too familiar. This book has helped me more than I could have imagined. I didn't know that there were so many social rules that I didn't know. It is written for adolescents, in a quick, simple, matter-of-fact style. You could read the whole book in one afternoon, but I recommend 1 short chapter at a time, to give yourself time to absorb the info and think about how it applies to your life. (Sheldon Cooper of the Big Bang Theory, is an extreme Aspie. I'm more like Lenard Hofstadter.) I highly recommend this book for anyone who feels slightly socially awkward.It is written in a simple and entertaining style, which is easy to learn. It is far superior to the other well known books on the subject, which offer little practical help. I recently met an adult person who appeared to have Asperger's tendencies so I gave this book to him. Within a very short period of time he was able to identify his Aperger's tendencies that caused him to be bullied as a child, which damaged his self-esteem and greatly affected his quality of life. This person's self-esteem has greatly increased and he is better able to interact with neurotypicals. He is now awaiting a formal diagnosis.Really liked the 'we're in this together' outlook and sharing of personal gaffs which made it relatable and prevented any feeling of being patronized by the author making the actual information easy to absorb and process.My son has Aspergers and we were really struggling to help him, but this has told us everything we need for him.Flicking through it I have no doubt it will be an invaluable resource for him throughout the next few critical years.
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He's an avid reader, which is good because it is quite wordy, and I'm sure he will have no problem getting to grips with it. Really pleased I chose this one. Might have a read myself first! Groups Discussions Quotes Ask the Author Jennifer O'Toole knows; she was one. This book is a top secret guide to all of the hidden social rules in life that often seem strange and confusing to young people with Asperger syndrome. The Asperkid's (Secret) Book of Social Rules offers witty and wise insights into baffling social Jennifer O'Toole knows; she was one. This book is a top secret guide to all of the hidden social rules in life that often seem strange and confusing to young people with Asperger syndrome. The Asperkid's (Secret) Book of Social Rules offers witty and wise insights into baffling social codes such as making and keeping friends, blending in versus standing out from the crowd, and common conversation pitfalls. Chock full of illustrations, logical explanations, and comic strip practice sessions, this is the handbook that every adult Aspie wishes they'd had growing up. Ideal for all 10-17 year olds with Asperger syndrome, this book provides inside information on over thirty social rules in bite-sized chunks that older children will enjoy, understand, and most importantly use daily to navigate the mysterious world around them. To see what your friends thought of this book,There are a lot of rules in here that made me go huh.I never really knew or understood the reasoning behind a lot of these odd little social things that people seem to do. While I don't follow 100 of the rules outlined, I do agree that if I did it would help me navigate the NT world a lot easier. I know if sucked up my sensory issues and shaved my legs and wore makeup for example, I woul be mo There are a lot of rules in here that made me go huh.I never really knew or understood the reasoning behind a lot of these odd little social things that people seem to do.
While I don't follow 100 of the rules outlined, I do agree that if I did it would help me navigate the NT world a lot easier. I know if sucked up my sensory issues and shaved my legs and wore makeup for example, I woul be more 'accepted' as a female member of society. One thing the book doesn't stress enough that I have learned is Choice - you can understand what some of the rules are and choose not to follow them anyhow. Being aware of the rules is important though, and this guide is very comprehensive and would be a good reference book for a young adult. I'm glad I read it. Things NTs take for granted like when to say thank you, how to greet others, how to control potential melt-downs, how not to verbalise every thought in our head without censorship are explained here in a structured, easy to navigate guide. I would highly recommend this guide for those who have Aspergers (from pre-teens to adults) as well as parents, siblings, grandparents, carers, educational professionals - there are so many people out there who would benefit greatly from reading this and hopefully simultaneously gaining insight and empathy. There's a lot that I really like about this book. First and foremost, it's written by someone on the spectrum for kids on the spectrum. It's not meant to be for parents or teachers or adults (although seriously, there are several pages I'd like to print and frame and hang around my office); it's written for tweens and teens, which is great. I like how logically it's laid out, how easy to read, and how n There's a lot that I really like about this book. First and foremost, it's written by someone on the spectrum for kids on the spectrum. It's not meant to be for parents or teachers or adults (although seriously, there are several pages I'd like to print and frame and hang around my office); it's written for tweens and teens, which is great. I like how logically it's laid out, how easy to read, and how non-judgmental the advice is.
There are even helpful practice sessions in the back. These are life-lessons that I (and I assume most people) had to learn the hard way, through trial and error, and it's lovely that someone thought to write it down in such a readable, useful format. All in all, this seems like a great resource. I'm eager to see what my kiddo thinks of it. Well, here you go. Whether you have an Asperkid, teach Asperkids, or are an Asperkid, this is a must read. It gives common-sense (common to NT's, that's neuro-typical) guidelines for behaviors and interactions in the socially complex world. Some of the tips just didn't occur to me. Ie, you have to tell an Asperkid how close is too close. They don't have the comfort zone issues I have. Because they often don't perceive the emotional side of a situation Well, here you go. Whether you have an Asperkid, teach Asperkids, or are an Asperkid, this is a must read. It gives common-sense (common to NT's, that's neuro-typical) guidelines for behaviors and interactions in the socially complex world. Some of the tips just didn't occur to me. Ie, you have to tell an Asperkid how close is too close. They don't have the comfort zone issues I have. Because they often don't perceive the emotional side of a situation, well, the other person's, you need to be specific if they make you feel uncomfortable. Focus on facts and everyone will co-exist more comfortably. Lots of good suggestions and thought-provoking information.I can't know, but I do know that it was easy read, with moments similar of those when you get friendly hug of understanding that brings peace. It's never too late to bring more peace in life:) Around decade or so ago I've read Unwritten Rules of Social Relationships: Decoding Social Mysteries Through Autism's Unique Perspectives and although it was a revelation and I could recognize I can't know, but I do know that it was easy read, with moments similar of those when you get friendly hug of understanding that brings peace.
It's never too late to bring more peace in life:) Around decade or so ago I've read Unwritten Rules of Social Relationships: Decoding Social Mysteries Through Autism's Unique Perspectives and although it was a revelation and I could recognize myself in many things it just wasn't so easy read like this one. If this book existed then and I've read it then, I believe it would leave better impact on younger me - I could relate better and probably directly use advice I've found here. I would highly recommend it to all aspie and half-aspie people (those who share some, but not most of the traits) no matter how old they are. I can bet that its refreshing tone will leave you in a better mood than before you started reading it:) I will definitely keep it in mind and recommend to everyone if Asperger topics comes to the table. Would NTs get something useful from here. I would say yes - this book gives good inside on how we could feel in some situations even though we're bad with words to express at the moment when it happens. Some parts, I found to be absolutely fantastic, while others less so. I'm glad I picked this up, although I wouldn't have, if it hadn't been recommended to me. Why? 1) I'm against the term Asperger's Syndrome and th Some parts, I found to be absolutely fantastic, while others less so. I'm glad I picked this up, although I wouldn't have, if it hadn't been recommended to me. I'm not a teenager. Well, I'm 21, so I'm still young, but it's still written for a much younger group. The person who recommended it, was a grown woman, also on the spectrum, said it was still useful and overall made it sound promising, which made me want to try it. 3) I'd sort of given up on autistic media because it's disappointed me in the past and just left me feeling even more lost and hopeless.
I read some books on the topic, most of which I didn't like, because they either stated objective information that I already knew, or took at more subjective route, making it feel almost like a biography, but still communicated as if this person's personal experience was universal for autistic people. I didn't find that interesting or helpful. No use to compare one self. The only thing is that yeah, this book is meant for people who have the capacities to actively work on adjusting their behaviour and self-reflection. The language isn't childish or oversimplified at all. It tries to be lighthearted and entertaining, but that just adds to making it a more uplifting experience, which I found very refreshing. Also the random age-intended stuff is easy to either look past or adjust to your own life. I could tell that she has strengths, I'm not blessed with, but also weaknesses, I'm blessed with not having. Though as long as you take whatever resonates and don't take what doesn't personally, it's no major issue. At least she follows up on her subjective experiences, or characteristics, with objective explanations. However, it also relates to one thing I didn't appreciate, which is that the topics, and order of such, seem pretty random. In the end, she does touch on a lot, but in my opinion, not quite enough. Maybe doing that would make it too long, but that's also why I'm wary on books on autism. Thats honestly scares me. It's so important. One example of inadequate or - in my opinion - outright inappropriate information, is the consistent heteronormativity of it, and advice based on traditional gender roles. Another is how she encourages to never talk about politics, etc.I mean, if you don't want to get into trouble, which I guess is a social skill of its own, then yes, definitely. She also encourages not caring about being liked by everyone and staying true to yourself. Why not when it comes to beliefs, then. It's a choice, but still.
Highly problematic and downright stupid. My favourite thing about this book was probably how kind it tried to be. The author almost took on a motherly role (or was that just me?). It made me, as a reader, feel rather comfortable and cared for. Oh, how I wish I'd read this, when I was younger. I can totally see that part being of utmost importance to a kid. Not just an autistic kid, but any kid. It's something I haven't read or heard much about within the topic of autism. I suppose people don't think it's relevant. They couldn't be more wrong.The interesting thing about this one is that is written by a woman who has Asperger syndrome. I found her writing style to be engaging, open, and honest. She is able to really speak to the heart of the issues without talking down to her audience. She starts out with 139 rules (the only reason I know is because I counted since they are not numbered). I thought that was overwhelming, but each chapter takes on much more than j The interesting thing about this one is that is written by a woman who has Asperger syndrome. I found her writing style to be engaging, open, and honest. She is able to really speak to the heart of the issues without talking down to her audience. She starts out with 139 rules (the only reason I know is because I counted since they are not numbered). I thought that was overwhelming, but each chapter takes on much more than just one as she clumps together related rules. The formatting is logical and genuinely involves the reader. She takes the time to explain the reasoning behind the rules and gives great examples to help the reader understand. I think this book could serve a wider audience than only people with Asperger’s. Everyone from high-functioning autistic to quirky introvert could find something to relate to themselves. I know I did.:) Some if this may be obvious to most of us but I know plenty of adults who still don't get these rules.
Wonderful book for all tweens Some if this may be obvious to most of us but I know plenty of adults who still don't get these rules. Wonderful book for all tweens My library even has it shelved in the adult nonfiction section. I appreciated that this book was written for autistics by an autistic woman raising three autistic children. After taking copious notes about invisible boundaries and self-advocacy, I decided to purchase this book so I could refer back to as needed. This book is eight years old and could benefit from My library even has it shelved in the adult nonfiction section. I appreciated that this book was written for autistics by an autistic woman raising three autistic children. After taking copious notes about invisible boundaries and self-advocacy, I decided to purchase this book so I could refer back to as needed. This book is eight years old and could benefit from an update. I mean, Asperger Syndrome is no longer a diagnosis given by the DSM. The book also focuses solely on heteronormativity and the gender binary. Gender and sexual identity are more varied in autistics than in the general population, so the book should do more to address this. Lastly, the book talked a lot about identifying friends vs.Trusting authority has nuance to it, just like deciding whether to trust a friend does. It’s a great book that helped a lot but it was not outstanding. It also had a few logically invalid parts, some of which are: Stickie 50- if a conversation is one on one, does that mean there should be no talking a third of the time. Practice Session 1- that person overreacted A TON. At least Asperpeople overreact for logically valid reasons, not a slightly unnecessary correction. Philadelphia: Jessica Kingsley Limited. Ranges from making friends and social rules to hygiene and social space. Also lists helpful websites and books. She has won awards in her work with Asperger Syndrome. Arran Philadelphia: Jessica Kingsley Limited.
Ranges from making friends and social rules to hygiene and social space. Also lists helpful websites and books. She has won awards in her work with Asperger Syndrome. This handbook can be used by students with Aspergers or to help students understand classmates or family members. This group is underrepresented in most libraries. Relation to other works- The library has two novels and one biography dealing with Asperger’s Syndrome. No reference materials on Asperger’s were found.I think my feeling about the book is more my own knee-jerk reaction to the reality that the rest of the world is operating on a very different set of rules from me, and I kinda deeply resent that. Universe? Are you listening? I'm not well pleased. In fairness, Jennifer Cook O'Toole has written a really useful book that sheds light on a lot of mysteries about the way social conventions work for the maj I think my feeling about the book is more my own knee-jerk reaction to the reality that the rest of the world is operating on a very different set of rules from me, and I kinda deeply resent that. Universe? Are you listening? I'm not well pleased. In fairness, Jennifer Cook O'Toole has written a really useful book that sheds light on a lot of mysteries about the way social conventions work for the majority of people on the planet. Fair play to her, for making that attempt. A tiny part of me is grateful for her endeavour. Humans are hard, man. Wish I could.It was in the young people's section of my library, but many of its suggestions remind me of what you get when you open one of those google selections that come up with your browser on how to be successful at this, that or some other thing.
Sort of an Emily Post of etiquette (nice behavior towards others) for our informal, digital, reality tv driven world -- how to be a decent, socially acceptable human being with a g It was in the young people's section of my library, but many of its suggestions remind me of what you get when you open one of those google selections that come up with your browser on how to be successful at this, that or some other thing. Sort of an Emily Post of etiquette (nice behavior towards others) for our informal, digital, reality tv driven world -- how to be a decent, socially acceptable human being with a good dose of empathy and willingness to attempt to understand the other people among whom we have to live, work, play. Reminds me of reading Hugh Prather 's It helped me understand how to go about interactions with others. I now understand the different levels of friendships, how to respectfully give feedback, and many other social rules that I have, until recently, struggled to pick up on. I believe that people without Asperger’s would benefit from understanding the struggles of someone with Asperger’s. Maybe even gaining an understanding of social rules they use sub It helped me understand how to go about interactions with others. I now understand the different levels of friendships, how to respectfully give feedback, and many other social rules that I have, until recently, struggled to pick up on. I believe that people without Asperger’s would benefit from understanding the struggles of someone with Asperger’s. Maybe even gaining an understanding of social rules they use subconsciously. It's actually autographed by Jennifer when I met her along with Temple Grandin. I read it then and only recently handed to my son. As a teenager, he is now facing more and more social situations which he frustrate him and this book is one resource he can go to to seek an answer. It's actually autographed by Jennifer when I met her along with Temple Grandin.
I read it then and only recently handed to my son. As a teenager, he is now facing more and more social situations which he frustrate him and this book is one resource he can go to to seek an answer. He read it 3 times the day he got it. High praise from him for something that doesn't involve video games! He read it 3 times the day he got it. High praise from him for something that doesn't involve video games! A book like this would have been helpful for me when I was in high school. Good, encouraging guidelines are offered for every day living and relating to others around the Asper-kid. They love the conversational tone, and feeling that someone else really “gets“ them. One chapter in, and my 10-year-old was begging me to buy him his own copy. However, there are some instances where it seems O'Toole is actually encouraging masking, which is extremely draining and hides your authentic self. However, there are some instances where it seems O'Toole is actually encouraging masking, which is extremely draining and hides your authentic self. To view it,One Aspie to another. It's also good for other kids who want to understand American social rules better! It's also good for other kids who want to understand American social rules better! I need to buy a copy. The author knows her target audience well and meets them exactly where they are -- the Aspergian world of Tweens and Teens. Do it any other way, and people (kids and adults) feel threatened, uncomfortable, even embarrassed or scared. So they freak. And all sorts of lousy consequences—bullying, teasing, practical jokes, etc.—act like a punishment. “Get in line or else” is the basic message. And it doesn’t change as you grow up.”. Jennifer O'Toole knows; she was one. This book is a top secret guide to all of the hidden social rules in life that often seem strange and confusing to young people with Asperger syndrome.
The Asperkid's (Secret) Book of Social Rules offers witty and wise insights into baffling social codes such as making and keeping friends, blending in versus standing out from the crowd, and common conversation pitfalls. Chock full of illustrations, logical explanations, and comic strip practice sessions, this is the handbook that every adult Aspie wishes they'd had growing up. Ideal for all 10-17 year olds with Asperger syndrome, this book provides inside information on over thirty social rules in bite-sized chunks that older children will enjoy, understand, and most importantly use daily to navigate the mysterious world around them. She is the founder of Asperkids LLC, a multi-media social education company and is an international speaker on Aspie issues. She previously worked as a social worker, and a teacher in both special needs and mainstream education. In 2012 she was honored with a GRASP Distinguished Spectrumite Medal, as well as a Temple Grandin Award. She is the author of Asperkids, The Asperkid's (Secret) Book of Social Rules, The Asperkid's Launch Pad, and The Asperkid's Not-Your-Average-Coloring-Book, also published by Jessica Kingsley Publishers. She lives near Charlotte, North Carolina. More titles by Jennifer Cook O'Toole Be the first add your own review for this title. This program is designed to provide a means for sites to earn advertising fees and linking to amazon.com. Thank you so much for supporting our community! Written by Jennifer O’Toole, who herself was diagnosed with Asperger’s at age 35, this book of social rules for individuals with autism is full of illustration and practice. If you have someone in your life who struggles with social situations, this book lays down a solid foundation of social ques for them to follow. Written by someone who knows what its like, the book is void of any veiled condescension, providing valuable advice to those seeking it.